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Arissa
07-23-2008, 09:30 PM
Just wanted to say hello and that I look forward to being involved and getting to know you all in the future :)

Been involved in the industry since January doing various forms of adult entertainment, mainly revolving around phone and cam. Moving into the direction of Membersites is in my immediate plans as well.

lazzlo
07-23-2008, 09:33 PM
welcome to mp!

AriGold
07-23-2008, 09:36 PM
Welcome!

Toby
07-23-2008, 09:41 PM
Hi Arissa, welcome :hello:

I know you didn't ask for a critique, so tell me to butt out if ya want. But I took a quick look at your web site. The colors, logo, background etc. just doesn't say fem domme to me. I'm getting more of a solo teen vibe.

sexytgp
07-23-2008, 09:41 PM
Welcome to MP

Footman
07-23-2008, 10:03 PM
Welcome to MP!

PMC
07-23-2008, 10:05 PM
Welcome to the board!

GodFather
07-23-2008, 10:08 PM
ola! welcome to mp

abigail
07-23-2008, 10:11 PM
Hi Arissa, welcome. I'm also new to the board.

RaVagE
07-23-2008, 10:13 PM
Welcome to MP Arissa

ronaldo
07-23-2008, 10:19 PM
Welcome.

My old partner FrankieP was black. Do you know him?

Mr. Goat
07-23-2008, 10:29 PM
Welcome.

My old partner FrankieP was black. Do you know him?

lol wtf....... :jumper:

Panky
07-23-2008, 10:30 PM
Welcum to MP. http://www.icando4u.com/smile/wave2.gif

I'd have to agree with Toby on this one. The design doesn't fit the whole fem domme theme. The language works. It's just the graphics used throws it off. Mixed signals so to speak.

SicOne
07-23-2008, 10:35 PM
Pimp on... Welcome to the board

SirMoby
07-23-2008, 11:10 PM
Hi Arissa, welcome :hello:

I know you didn't ask for a critique, so tell me to butt out if ya want. But I took a quick look at your web site. The colors, logo, background etc. just doesn't say fem domme to me. I'm getting more of a solo teen vibe.
Hi Arissa.

I think Toby's being a bad boy and needs to be punished.:mya:

Toby
07-23-2008, 11:17 PM
I think Toby's being a bad boy and needs to be punished.:mya:

Dom/sub isn't really my thing, I just like the attire.

Besides, F/M doesn't really work too well. F/m or M/f or even F/M/f works much better. :)

C-Luv
07-23-2008, 11:28 PM
welcome to the boards cutie!

MP
07-24-2008, 12:16 AM
Welcome!

Yngwie
07-24-2008, 12:17 AM
welcome to the board

crockett
07-24-2008, 12:40 AM
I thought it was a rule, that new girls had to show their tits..

XxXotic
07-24-2008, 01:21 AM
welcome to MP

Seven888
07-24-2008, 02:18 AM
Welcome to the board!

ronaldo
07-24-2008, 02:25 AM
lol wtf....... :jumper:

Wtf are you laughing at? If you weren't a racist fuck and had some black friends yourself, you'd ask the same question.

Jeez. Try to be friendly and look what happens.

»Rob Content«™
07-24-2008, 02:27 AM
welcome welcome welcome

goldbucks
07-24-2008, 03:03 AM
Welcome to MP

plugin
07-24-2008, 03:56 AM
Hello Arissa...Welcome to the board

NY Jester
07-24-2008, 04:45 AM
welcome to MP

mOrrI
07-24-2008, 05:35 AM
Welcome to MP :D

Tim
07-24-2008, 06:39 AM
Welcome :)

Arissa
07-24-2008, 02:29 PM
Thanks for the welcome!

About the colors I can understand where you guys are coming from. My character is somewhat of a young (I am college-aged), modern, princess-type of domme and not really much of the whips and chains domme so thats why I went for the softer, pink layout. I didn't really emphasize on that exact description because the "I'm a pretty girly pink princess bitch so fuck you and gimme money so i can shop!" field is pretty saturated and overdone.
However, I do appreciate the suggestion and will take it into consideration when I have my site redone soon. I'm going to invest in having some professional photographs taken ASAP and then I will probably then invest in a pro web designer.

:D

Cyndalie
07-24-2008, 03:31 PM
Welcome to MP. Lots of good people with tons of knowledge here!

camalot
07-24-2008, 04:21 PM
Welcome to MP!

Baxter
07-24-2008, 04:52 PM
welcome to mp

DarkWeb
07-24-2008, 06:40 PM
hi

Mike Semen
07-24-2008, 06:44 PM
welcome!

kaz
07-24-2008, 06:59 PM
It's always good to have another woman here, seems they are in short supply here at MP

Clam
07-24-2008, 07:27 PM
Welcome!

Thomas1007
07-24-2008, 08:53 PM
welcome to the mp board.
:hello:

facialfreak
07-24-2008, 09:39 PM
The whole ABW thing doesn't do a thing for me anymore, having been with one for 8+ years ... but to each their own, and welcome to MP!

Now show us them sweater stretchers!! :D

mimi
07-24-2008, 09:44 PM
welcome to MP Arissa

USUALENT
07-25-2008, 02:54 AM
welcome to mp

Arissa
07-25-2008, 10:02 AM
The whole ABW thing doesn't do a thing for me anymore, having been with one for 8+ years ... but to each their own, and welcome to MP!

Now show us them sweater stretchers!! :D

Whats with this racial comments in this thread? Why do you assume that I am ABW?

And thanks for the welcome everyone else!

facialfreak
07-25-2008, 11:49 AM
Whats with this racial comments in this thread? Why do you assume that I am ABW?

And thanks for the welcome everyone else!

It is not a "RACIAL" comment .... give me a break ...

It is not more racial than you calling me white or greek ...

As far as assuming ... I did no such thing ... you spell it out very clear in your website ...

Maybe this is all role-playing, but you still portray it, and thus the comment.

It is not racially motivated in any way, shape or form ... I was with a black (or african-american, or however you wish to be referred as) for 8+ years, and she is the mother of my daughter ...

I have nothing but love for exotic women, so please don't go pulling the race card ...

I simple stated that the ABW you portray in your website is not my cup of tea ...

And for anybody else keeping score, ABW is an acronym for angry black woman ... no racial slur of any kind ... I'm sorry if you took it wrong.

FF

Arissa
07-25-2008, 01:54 PM
It is not a "RACIAL" comment .... give me a break ...

It is not more racial than you calling me white or greek ...

As far as assuming ... I did no such thing ... you spell it out very clear in your website ...

Maybe this is all role-playing, but you still portray it, and thus the comment.

It is not racially motivated in any way, shape or form ... I was with a black (or african-american, or however you wish to be referred as) for 8+ years, and she is the mother of my daughter ...

I have nothing but love for exotic women, so please don't go pulling the race card ...

I simple stated that the ABW you portray in your website is not my cup of tea ...

And for anybody else keeping score, ABW is an acronym for angry black woman ... no racial slur of any kind ... I'm sorry if you took it wrong.

FF


What you see on my website spells out not even a hint of "anger", but being an apparent femdom. Being a female dominant is not being driven by anger or rage, but control, poise, confidence and superiority.
If a domme were for some reason to get angry and show it, that would mean she has lost control and stepped into a situation that she cannot handle, and that's not what domination is about.

I'm not pulling a race card, but I'm wondering why you felt the need to label as me as such as I am far from that. You didn't specify in your initial post why you decided to call me ABW, you just said it.
You have made it clear that maybe what you meant is that you are not into dominant women. That's fine, however Dominas are of every color in the rainbow, even white.

If you do a quick search online you will see many, many white dominas being way more harsh and cruel than I have mentioned to be. I wouldn't label them Angry White Women, I would call them what they are: Harsh, Humilatrix, or what ever other niche they may be targeting.

Georgief
07-25-2008, 06:27 PM
welcome aboard babe

Murloc
07-25-2008, 06:55 PM
Hello and welcome :)

born2blog
07-25-2008, 07:11 PM
Hi Arissa, welcome to MP :)

Please don't take what facialfreak said personally, he really meant no harm in his post trust me on that!!

facialfreak
07-27-2008, 04:19 AM
not into AWW either ... LOL!

I really meant no harm by the comment - it was what I read from your site - but if you want to take it that way, so be it ...

Kinda funny how such a benign comment warrants such a malignant response ... maybe I hit a nerve? :corky: